Ndemanga Yachidule pa Mnansi Wanga Mu Chingerezi
Kuyamba:
Kukhala ndi anansi othandiza ndi dalitso kwa aliyense. Kukhala ndi anansi otithandiza, osamala, ndi ofunitsitsa kuthandiza kumapangitsa moyo kukhala wosalira zambiri. Kaŵirikaŵiri, pamafunika kukhala ndi anansi otisamalira pamene tili patchuthi kapena pazifukwa zina zilizonse.
Pakachitika ngozi yadzidzidzi kapena ngati tikukumana ndi vuto lililonse, iwo ndi amene adzayambe kutithandiza. Anansi athu ndi anthu oyandikana kwambiri ndi ife pambuyo pa achibale athu. Chifukwa chake, mutha kunena kuti ali pafupi kwambiri kuposa achibale. M’nkhani yanga, ndikufotokoza makhalidwe a mnansi wothandiza, popeza kuti nthaŵi imeneyi achibale athu amakhala kutali.
Nawa mikhalidwe yomwe ndikufuna kufotokozera mnansi wanga m'nkhani ya mnansi wanga. Ndi dalitso kukhala ndi mnansi wokoma mtima wotero ndi wochirikiza. Banja langa lili ngati lawo.
Banja la a Bhatiya limakhala pafupi ndi ine. Mu zaka zawo zapakati, Bambo Bhatiya ndi munthu wowolowa manja kwambiri. Amakhala ndi mkazi wake komanso ana ake aamuna awiri omwe akuphunzira kunja. Amagwira ntchito ku dipatimenti ya MSEB ngati wogwira ntchito m'boma. Ngakhale kuti ndi wophweka, iye ndi wokongola.
Nayenso ndi wolimbikira ntchito, monganso mkazi wake, Mayi Bhatiya. Zonse zili kwa iye kugwira ntchito zonse zapakhomo. Kumuphikira ndikosangalatsa. Zakudya zake zapadera zimandipeza nthawi iliyonse akaphika. Makhalidwe awo onse ndi othandiza kwambiri. Pagulu, amakhala ndi mbiri yabwino.
Popeza ndi anthu odziwa zambiri, ndimalankhula nawo nthawi zonse ndikafuna malangizo. Amandiitaniranso ku zikondwerero ndi zochitika zapadera. Tsopano ndife banja.
Kutsiliza:
Kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi anansi athu ndikofunika kwambiri chifukwa ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi ife. M'nthawi zowonda komanso zowonda, iwo ndi oyamba kutithandiza. Kukhala ndi anansi okoma mtima chotero kumandipangitsa kumva kukhala wodalitsidwa kwambiri.
250 Ndemanga Yamawu pa Mnansi Wanga Mu Chingerezi
Ndi dalitso kwa banja kukhala ndi anansi okoma mtima kulizungulira. Nthawi zonse pakakhala vuto kwa banja limodzi lomwe achibale awo ali kutali, anansi awo amakhalapo kuti awathandize.
Ndinalowa m’gulu limeneli ndi mwamuna wanga koyamba. Mwamuna wanga ankagwira ntchito kubanki. Chilichonse chinali chinsinsi kwa ine, ndipo iwo ndi ine tinali osadziwika kwa wina ndi mzake. Masiku ano, anthu sakhulupirirana. Tinathandizidwa kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe ndi Mayi Agrawal, mayi wamtima wabwino. Amakhala moyandikana ndi nyumba yathu. Nkhope zathu zinadzazidwa ndi kumwetulira kwake kokoma pamene tinalowa m’nyumba yathu.
Komanso apongozi anga sanathe kukhala nafe chifukwa cha matenda awo, choncho ndinalibe luso logwira ntchito zapakhomo. Mayi Agrawal ankandithandiza nthawi zonse, ngakhale pamene ndinkachita mantha kwambiri. Mpaka ndinakonza khitchini yanga, iye anatipangira chakudya. Malangizo amene anandipatsa pokonza nyumbayo analinso othandiza kwambiri. Mwa iye, ndinawawona amayi anga.
Mwamuna wake atagwidwa ndi mtima mwadzidzidzi, Mayi Agrawal ankakhala ndi mwana wawo wamwamuna yekhayo. Alinso ndi ana aakazi awiri okwatiwa. Alinso ndi mwana wamwamuna yemwe ndi wokoma mtima kwambiri komanso wofunitsitsa kuthandiza ena. Limeneli ndi banja la makhalidwe abwino, lachikhalidwe. Chikhulupiriro chawo mwa Mulungu n’cholimba. Komanso pokhala mayi wophunzira, Mayi Agrawal alinso ndi digiri ya master mu Chingerezi.
Ali ndi mwana wamwamuna yemwe ndi chartered accountant. Zikuwonekeratu kuti ndi munthu woganiza bwino. Nyumba yake inkasamalidwa bwino popeza anali mkazi wosakwatiwa. Anawaphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino. Chinthu choyamba chimene amachita m'mawa ndikudzuka 5 koloko ndikuyenda ndikuchita yoga yopepuka.
Ntchito zake zapakhomo zimamalizidwa akamaliza miyambo yake ya pooja. Zambiri mwa ntchito zake zimachitidwa yekha. Ukhondo ndi dongosolo ndi zizindikiro za nyumba yake. N’zosatheka kuti iye akhale wopanda chilichonse chifukwa amayendetsa bwino chilichonse. Sindimazengereza kulankhula naye ngati ndikufuna chakudya chilichonse, ndipo zosowa zanga zimakwaniritsidwa nthawi zonse.
Mwamuna wake atamwalira mwamsanga pamene ana ake anali aang’ono kwambiri, iye anapitirizabe kutsimikiza mtima kuphunzitsa ana ake ndi kuwapatsa maphunziro abwino. M’moyo wake wonse, anakumana ndi mavuto ambiri. Zinali zosangalatsa kukumana ndi Mayi Agrawal, mayi wolimbikitsa ena. Amandilimbikitsanso. Nthawi zonse pali njira yothetsera vuto lililonse lomwe amakumana nalo.
Chidziwitso changa choyamba ndikuthamangira kwa iye nthawi iliyonse ndili pajamu. Ngakhale mwamuna wanga amamulemekeza ndi kumuyamikira. Zakhala zosangalatsa kugwira nanu. Ubale wathu ndi iwo umafanana ndi wa banja. Kaya ndife osangalala kapena osasangalala, iwo ali mbali ya moyo wathu.
Mfundo yakuti iye ndi banja lake amakhala otithandiza nthawi zonse, ndiye kuti sitisoŵa mabanja athu. Ifenso amatitenga ngati banja. N’zosangalatsa kwambiri kukhala ndi mnansi wabwino chotero ndi banja. Nthawi zonse ndimafunitsitsa kuti akhale wathanzi komanso wosangalala.
Ndemanga Yaitali pa Mnansi Wanga Mu Chingerezi
Kuyamba:
Monga anthu, tonse ndife mbali ya anthu komanso oyandikana nawo. Malowa amakhudza kwambiri miyoyo yathu, zomwe ndizofunikira. Kumatsimikizira kumene tili m’moyo ndi mmene tikuchitira. Malo athu ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wathu. Ngati tilibe osangalala kuno, sitingathe kukhala mwamtendere.
Zonse Zokhudza Malo Anga
Malo anga ndi abwino. Awa ndi malo abwino kwambiri chifukwa amapereka malo ambiri. Dera langa ndi lokongola kwambiri chifukwa cha malo obiriwira pafupi ndi nyumba yanga. Ana amathanso kusewera mosangalala mu paki tsiku lonse pa swings.
Palinso mapindu ena ambiri okhala m’dera lathu. Kukhala ndi golosale pafupi ndi pakiyi kumatsimikizira kuti zosowa za anthu zikukwaniritsidwa popanda kupita kutali. Golosale ndi malo okhawo ogulitsa oyandikana nawo.
Popeza mwiniwakeyo amakhala m’dera limodzi, amakhala wachifundo kwambiri ndi aliyense. Tonsefe timasunga nthawi ndi ndalama pogula m’sitolo. Nthawi zonse m'dera langa mumakhala malo aukhondo.
Imatsukidwa nthawi zonse ndi gulu lokonza. Madzulo, anansi anga amakhala ndi kumasuka, pamene m’maŵa amatuluka panja ndi kukasangalala ndi mpweya wabwino.
Chifukwa Chake Ndimakonda Malo Anga?
Tilinso ndi anansi odabwitsa omwe amapangitsa moyo wathu kukhala wabwino mdera langa, kupatula malo apamwamba kwambiri. Pali zambiri kudera lochita bwino kuposa kungothandizira.
Chifukwa cha kutsekemera kwa mnansi wanga, ndidachita mwayi pankhaniyi. Kusunga derali mwamtendere kumapangitsa kuti aliyense azikhala mwamtendere. M’zondichitikira zanga, aliyense amathamangira kukathandiza pakagwa mwadzidzidzi kunyumba ya munthu.
Malo athu amakhalanso amakonza zochitika nthawi ndi nthawi kuti aliyense athe kusonkhana ndi kusangalala. Kusewera ndi anzanga akumudzi kumandisangalatsa kwambiri.
Ambiri ndi amsinkhu wanga, choncho timayenda panjinga ndi kuzembera limodzi madzulo aliwonse. Anzathu amatiitaniranso ku maphwando awo akubadwa ndipo timavina ndi kuimba limodzi. Anthu okhalamo ndi gawo lomwe ndimakonda kwambiri mdera langa.
Ndikaona anthu osauka akubwerera chimanjamanja, ndimadabwa kuti n’chifukwa chiyani timachitira zimenezi. Ntchito yopereka ndalama imakonzedwanso ndi anthu oyandikana nawo chaka chilichonse. Mabanja amachita nawo pulogalamuyi popereka zovala, zoseweretsa, ndi zinthu zina zofunika kwa anthu ovutika.
Zimenezi zimatipangitsa kukhala banja lalikulu lokhalira limodzi. Zilibe kanthu kuti tikukhala m’nyumba zosiyanasiyana, mitima yathu ndi yogwirizana ndi chikondi ndi ulemu.
Kutsiliza:
Kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino, ndikofunikira kukhala m'dera losangalatsa. Ndipotu anansi athu amakhala othandiza kwambiri kuposa achibale athu. Ndi chifukwa chakuti amakhala pafupi kotero kuti amatha kupereka chithandizo pakagwa mwadzidzidzi. Mofananamo, m’dera limene ndimakhalamo ndi laukhondo ndiponso laubwenzi, zomwe zimachititsa moyo wanga kukhala wachimwemwe ndi wokhutira.
Ndime Yaitali pa Neba Wanga Mu Chingerezi
Anansi athu ndi anthu omwe amakhala pafupi kapena pafupi. M’miyoyo yathu, amachita mbali yofunika kwambiri, ndipo angachokere m’madera osiyanasiyana kapena m’maiko osiyanasiyana. Mnzathu wokoma mtima amakhala m’banja lathu ndipo amakhala wokonzeka nthawi zonse kutithandiza pamene tikufunika thandizo. Banja lathu likakhala kuti palibe, amatitonthoza mwa kutiuza za chimwemwe ndi chisoni chawo.
Munthu amene amakhala pafupi ndi ineyo ndi wachifundo, wodzichepetsa komanso wachifundo. Sonalee Shirke ndi injiniya wa mapulogalamu pakampani yodziwika bwino. Ndimatha kuthetsa mavuto anga mothandizidwa ndi mnansi wanga wabwino. Umunthu wake wopatsa chidwi, wokonda zosangalatsa, komanso chisangalalo zimamupangitsa kukhala munthu wosangalala kwambiri yemwe ndidakumanapo naye. Amanditsogolera ndikundipulumutsa ku misampha ndi khalidwe lake lokhwima komanso luso lake.
Ubale wanga ndi iye wakhazikika pakugawana ndikukambirana chilichonse. Palibenso wina wosamala, wopanda dyera, ndi wachikondi kuposa iye. Khalidwe lake laubwenzi komanso lothandiza limaonekera m'nyumba yathu, zomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala membala wokondedwa kwambiri pakampani yathu. Zikondwerero ndi nthawi yake yobweretsa anthu pamodzi ndikukondwerera chochitika chilichonse.
Chikhalidwe chathu chikulepheretsedwa ndi ena. Pa zikondwerero, sakonda pamene ana satenga nawo mbali ndi kusewera. Iwo ndi chitini cha mphutsi zomwe sitingathe kuzidalira kuti zitithandize. Komanso, nthawi zonse amachita miseche, kudandaula, ndi kulowerera. Zimapanga malo opanda thanzi ndipo zimakhudza ambiri.
Lingaliro la umunthu layiwalika ndi anthu ena, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala opanda khalidwe. N’zachidziŵikire kuti sitingathe kusankha anansi athu, koma tingagwire ntchito limodzi kuti dziko likhale losangalala. Malinga ndi a Willian Castle, "Kukhala mnansi wokoma mtima m'dera lomwe likuwonongeka kumakhumudwitsa." Choncho, mmene timachitira zinthu ndi anthu ena n’zofunika kwambiri.
Ndime Yachidule pa Mnansi Wanga Mu Chingerezi
Mnansi wokoma mtima ndi dalitso. N’zosangalatsa kukhala pafupi ndi bambo David. Njonda mwa iye imawala nthawi zonse. Aliyense amamuona kuti ndi wothandiza kwambiri.
Kuwonjezera pa kukhala wamalonda wolemera, a David alinso ndi banja lalikulu. Ndimaona kuti ndi wanzeru kwambiri. Agalu ake awiri ndi ziweto zake. Ngakhale kuti ndi wolemera, sasonyeza kudzikuza. Aliyense amachitiridwa chifundo ndi kuwolowa manja ndi iye.
Kuwonjezera pa ana awo aamuna ndi aakazi, a David ali ndi zidzukulu zinayi. Amalandira thandizo kuchokera kwa mwana wake wamkulu. Kuwonjezera pa msinkhu wanga, mwana wachiwiri amapita kusukulu ya boma. M'banja mwake muli ana aakazi awiri omwe amaphunzira giredi XNUMX ndi XNUMX motsatana. Kuwonjezera pa amayi ake, amakhala ndi bambo ake.
Achibale ake onse ndi anthu abwino. Pali kukoma mtima kwakukulu ndi chipembedzo mwa abambo ake. Ana ake amakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino komanso okoma mtima. Ophunzira nawonso amasamalidwa bwino ndi iwo. Charles, mwana wachiŵiri, amandithandiza nthaŵi zonse kuthetsa mavuto anga ndikakhala nawo.
Pamalo wamba, a David amakhala ndi misonkhano ya anthu oyandikana nawo pazikondwerero monga Khrisimasi. Nthaŵi zina amapereka, ndipo nthaŵi zina amanyamula ndalama zonse.
Ndimayamikira mgwirizano ndi kuthandiza a David ndi banja lawo kupereka. Iwo ataya mtundu wa malingaliro abanja pakati pa anansi.