Nafi Kowa Mahaifiyata Muqala
Mutum na kwarai, Mahaifiyata mutum ce mai ban mamaki wacce ta ƙunshi duk halayen da nake sha'awa da kuma burin in haɗa su. Ita ba abin koyi ba ce kawai, har ma tushen ƙauna, goyon baya, da jagorata ce. Rashin son kai, azama, da sadaukarwarta ba tare da kakkautawa ba, sun sanya ta zama abin koyi na mutum mai manufa. Daya daga cikin ma'anar halaye na uwa ta rashin son kai ne. Kullum tana sanya bukatu da farin cikin wasu a gaban nata. Ko kula da danginmu ne, ko taimaka wa abokai, ko kuma ba da kai don dalilai daban-daban, ta sadaukar da kanta don yin tasiri mai kyau a rayuwar waɗanda ke kewaye da ita. Ayyukanta na alheri da tausayi suna ƙarfafa ni na ba da fifiko ga jin daɗin wasu kuma in ba da taimako koyaushe. Banda rashin son kai, yunƙurin mahaifiyata abin burgewa ne. Ba ta daina yin burinta kuma tana ƙarfafa ni in yi haka. Duk da cewa tana fuskantar kalubale da cikas iri-iri, tana tunkarar su gaba-da-gaba da azama. Ƙudurin ta ya zama abin tunatarwa cewa ba a samun nasara cikin sauƙi kuma yana buƙatar sadaukarwa da aiki tuƙuru. Ta hanyar misalinta, na koyi mahimmancin juriya da matsawa wuce iyaka don cimma burina. Bugu da ƙari, sadaukarwar mahaifiyata ga ƙaunatattunta wani abu ne da nake ƙauna sosai. Ta kasance koyaushe a gare ni, tana ba da goyon baya da kuma kunnen kunne. Ƙaunar ta ba ta da iyaka, kuma tana wuce gona da iri don tabbatar da farin ciki da jin daɗinmu. Ƙaunarta marar iyaka da amincinta marar ƙarewa sun koya mani ƙimar haɗin iyali da kuma ƙarfin yanayin haɓakawa, tallafi. Bayan halayenta na ɗaiɗaiku, mahaifiyata koyaushe tana nuna halayen mutumin kirki ta hanyar ayyukanta a cikin al'umma. Ta kasance mai himma a cikin ƙungiyoyin agaji kuma tana sadaukar da lokacinta da ƙoƙarinta don yin tasiri mai kyau ga al'umma. Ko yana shirya masu tara kuɗi, aikin sa kai a matsugunan gida, ko bayar da shawarwari ga muhimman dalilai, tana aiki tuƙuru don ganin duniya ta zama wuri mafi kyau. Yunkurin da ta yi na kawo canji yana kara min kwarin gwiwa na kara fahimtar zamantakewa da kuma ba da gudummawa sosai ga ci gaban al'umma. A ƙarshe, mahaifiyata ta ƙunshi halayen da na yi imani sun zama mutum mai kyau. Rashin son kai, jajircewarta, sadaukarwarta mara kaushi, da jajircewarta wajen ganin duniya ta zama wuri mai kyau abin burgewa. Ta misalinta, ta cusa mani mahimmancin kyautatawa, juriya, da maimaitawa. Ina matukar godiya da samunta a matsayin uwata kuma ina ƙoƙarin yin koyi da halayenta na ban mamaki a rayuwata.