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Ukususela kwixesha lokuzalwa kwethu, usapho lwethu ludlala indima ebalulekileyo ekubumbeni ubomi bethu nakuphuhliso lobuqu. Ngoko ke akumangalisi ukuba ezona zifundo zobulumko nezinempembelelo endizifundileyo ziphuma kwintsapho yam. Bandifundisa izifundo ezibalulekileyo zobomi eziye zandixonxa ukuba ndibe ngumntu endinguye namhlanje.
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Ukukhulela kwintsapho enemilinganiselo engqongqo kundifundise izifundo ezininzi endiza kuzithwala ubomi bam bonke. Intsapho yakowethu indifundise ukubaluleka kokusebenza nzima, imbeko nokunyaniseka. Ukusebenza nzima sesinye sezona zifundo zibalulekileyo endizifunde kwintsapho yam. Abazali bam bebesoloko bendikhuthaza ukuba ndisebenze nzima ndize ndizame ukufikelela usukelo lwam. Kwasebuncinaneni bam, ndafundiswa ukuba ukusebenza nzima ngundoqo wokuphumelela. Esi sifundo similiselwe kum kwaye ndisebenze nzima ukufezekisa iinjongo zam.
Imbeko sesinye isifundo endisifundileyo kwintsapho yakowethu. Abazali bam baye bandifundisa ukuhlonela wonke umntu, kungakhathaliseki ubudala bakhe, uhlanga okanye isini. Baye bandifundisa ukuphatha wonke umntu ngobubele nangentlonelo. Esi sifundo besibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bam kwaye ndizamile ukusiqhelanisa yonke imihla.
Okokugqibela, ukunyaniseka sesinye isifundo endisifumene kwintsapho yakowethu. Abazali bam bebesoloko benyanisekile omnye komnye nakwintsapho yakowethu. Baye bandifundisa ukunyaniseka kubahlobo nakwintsapho yam, enoba kwenzeka ntoni na. Esi ibe sisifundo esihle endimele ndisifunde kwaye ndizamile ukusiqhelanisa ubomi bam bonke.
Lilonke, intsapho yam indifundise izifundo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo endiza kuzithwala ubomi bam bonke. Ukusebenza nzima, imbeko nokunyaniseka zezinye zezona zifundo zibalulekileyo endizifunde kwintsapho yam. Ezi zifundo bezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bam kwaye ziye zandinceda ukuba ndibe ngulo mntu ndinguye namhlanje. Ndiyazibulela izifundo endizifundiswe lusapho lwam kwaye ndiya kuqhubeka ndizisebenzisa kubo bonke ubomi bam.
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Intsapho yeyona nto ixabisekileyo ebomini bakhe nawuphi na umntu. Ukususela ekuzalweni kwethu, intsapho yethu isinika inkxaso nesikhokelo esiyimfuneko ukuze sikhule sibe ngabantu abadala abaqolileyo. Ngenxa yoko, akumangalisi ukuba sifunde izifundo ezinzulu kwiintsapho zethu eziya kuhlala nathi ubomi bethu bonke.
Esona sifundo sibalulekileyo endisifundileyo kusapho lwam kukubaluleka kokugcina ubudlelwane obuluqilima. Ekukhuleni kwethu, intsapho yam yayisoloko isondelelene yaye sasinxibelelana rhoqo. Sasidla ngokuncokola efowunini, sithumelelana ii-imeyile neeleta, yaye sasityelelana rhoqo. Oku kwandifundisa ukuba kunyanzelekile ukuba sihlale sinxulumana nabantu esibakhathaleleyo.
Esinye isifundo endasifunda kusapho lwam kukubaluleka kokuthwala uxanduva ngezenzo zethu. Ekukhuleni kwam, abazali bam babesoloko beyiqonda imiphumo yezenzo zam. Ukuba ndenze impazamo, babengayi koyika ukundiqeqesha baze baqinisekise ukuba ndiyakuqonda ukubaluleka kokuthatha uxanduva ngeempazamo zam. Esi ibe sisifundo esixabiseke kunene endihamba naso kude kube namhlanje.
Ekugqibeleni, ndafunda ukubaluleka kokuziphatha okuqinileyo kwintsapho yam. Abazali bam babesoloko bendifundisa ukuba ndizabalazele ukuba ngoyena mntu ndinokuba nguye yaye ndingawancami amaphupha am. Bandibonisa ukuba ukusebenza ngenkuthalo nokuzinikela kunomvuzo ekugqibeleni. Baphinde bandibonisa ukuba impumelelo ayinakwenzeka ukuba uzimisele ukuzama.
Ukuqukumbela, intsapho yam indifundise izifundo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo endiza kuzithwala ubomi bam bonke. Ukusuka ekugcineni ubudlelwane obuqinileyo ukuya ekuthatheni uxanduva ngezenzo zam kunye nokuba nokuziphatha okuqinileyo komsebenzi, ezi zifundo ziye zandinceda ukuba ndibe ngumntu endinguye namhlanje. Ndinombulelo ngokuba nosapho oluhle kangaka olundixhasayo nondikhokelayo kubo bonke ubomi bam.
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Intsapho yeyona nto ixabisekileyo ebomini bam, yaye intsapho yakowethu indifundise ezona zifundo zibalulekileyo ebomini. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, abazali bam bandifundisa izifundo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinomphumo ohlala uhleli kubomi bam. Ngokomzekelo, ndiye ndafunda ukubaluleka kokusebenza nzima nokuzinikela. Abazali bam baye babethelela kum ukubaluleka kokusebenza nzima ukuze ndifikelele usukelo lwam. Bandifundise nokuba ndinganikezeli, nokuba unzima kangakanani na umsebenzi.
Esinye isifundo endisifundileyo kwintsapho yam kukubaluleka kokunyaniseka nokuthembeka. Abazali bam bebesoloko bekubethelela ukubaluleka kokuthetha inyaniso, kwanaxa kunzima ukwenjenjalo. Kwakhona baye bandifundisa ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka kwabanye nokuba ngumntu welizwi lam. Esi ibe sisifundo esixabiseke kunene endiya kuhlala naso ubomi bam bonke.
Kwakhona intsapho yakowethu indifundise ukubaluleka kobubele novelwano kwabanye. Abazali bam bebesoloko bendikhuthaza ukuba ndibe nobubele kwabanye ndize ndibaphathe ngembeko nangembeko. Kwakhona baye bandifundisa ukunceda abo basweleyo nokuba nokuqonda nokuxolela. Esi sisifundo endiya kuhlala ndisikhumbula kwaye ndizama ukusigcina.
Ekugqibeleni, intsapho yam indifundise umbulelo ngobomi bam. Abazali bam bebesoloko bekubethelela ukubaluleka kokuba nombulelo ngazo zonke iintsikelelo zam. Baye bandifundisa ukuba nombulelo ngezinto ezinethamsanqa ezehlelayo nokwamkela izinto ezimbi ezizehlelayo nam. Esi ibe sisifundo esixabiseke kunene endiya kusithwala ubomi bam bonke.
Ezi zezinye zezinto ezimbalwa endizifunde kusapho lwam. Zibe zizifundo ezixabisekileyo endiya kuzisebenzisa kubo bonke ubomi bam. Ndinombulelo kusapho lwam ngokundifundisa ezi zifundo zinentsingiselo eziya kuhlala kum ngonaphakade.
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Ekubeni ndikhulele kwintsapho emanyeneyo, ndiye ndafunda izinto ezininzi ezibalulekileyo eziye zatshintsha ubomi bam. Esinye sezona zifundo zibalulekileyo endizifundileyo kusapho lwam kukuhlala ndinobubele novelwano kwabanye. Yinto endayibethelwa ngabazali bam kwasebuntwaneni, yayisisiseko sobomi bam ukusukela ngoko.
Abazali bam bebesoloko benesisa ngexesha nangezinto abanazo. Baye bandikhuthaza ukuba ndenze okufanayo kwaye bandifundisa ukupha kwabo bangathathi ntweni kunam. Abazali bam bebesoloko behamba nam kuhambo lokuzithandela ukuya kumakhitshi esuphu asekuhlaleni nakwiindawo ezingenamakhaya, apho silungiselela ukutya kwabo basweleyo. Ngala mava, ndifunde ukubaluleka kokubuyisela kwindawo endihlala kuyo nokuba ngummelwane othembekileyo.
Esinye isifundo endisifundileyo kwintsapho yam kukuba nombulelo ngoko ndinako. Abazali bam bebesoloko bendikhuthaza ukuba ndibe nombulelo ngeentsikelelo zam, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zincinane kangakanani na. Baye bandifundisa ukuxabisa umzuzu ngamnye kwaye ndingathathi nantoni na. Esi ibe sisifundo esixabiseke kunene kum, njengoko iye yandifundisa ukuthobeka nokuba nombulelo ngako konke endinako.
Kwakhona ndiye ndafunda ukubaluleka kokuchitha ixesha nentsapho kubazali bam. Rhoqo ngeCawe, intsapho yam yayidla ngokuhlanganisana isidlo sangokuhlwa, yaye sasichitha ubusuku sibambene yaye sonwabele ukuba kunye. Eli xesha kunye lalixabiseke kakhulu, njengoko lisivumele ukuba sidibanise kwaye sihlale sinxibelelana.
Okokugqibela, esinye sezona zifundo zibalulekileyo endizifundileyo kusapho lwam kukuhlala ndizama ukuba lolona guqulelo lufanelekileyo kum. Abazali bam bebesoloko bendikhuthaza ukuba ndisebenze ngamandla kwaye ndinganikezeli kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani na. Lo ibingumthombo omkhulu wenkuthazo kum kwaye undincedile ukuba ndihlale ndigxile kwaye ndizame ukugqwesa kuyo yonke into endiyenzayo.
Izifundo endizifunde kwintsapho yam zixabiseke gqitha, yaye ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngokukhuliswa ngemilinganiselo eqine ngolo hlobo. Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi zifundo ndiza kuzidlulisela kwisizukulwana esilandelayo ukuze nabo bazuze kubulumko bosapho lwam.
Isiphelo,
Usapho lwam lube ngowona mthombo ubalulekileyo wesikhokelo kunye nenkuthazo. Baye bandifundisa izifundo ezibalulekileyo zobomi ezisaqhubeka zinempembelelo kwizigqibo nezenzo zam unanamhla. Umsebenzi ozinikeleyo, ukunyaniseka, intlonipho, unyamezelo, nezinye iimpawu ezininzi ezixabisekileyo zizifundo endiya kuhlala ndizixabisa yaye ndinenjongo yokuzidlulisela kwizizukulwana ezizayo.